I am Learning:-

that how I think things can be done is not always how others think it can be done, but can work out just as well if not better!!

An example of this was the craft & chat, I thought it would be good if it was a little structured, eg: a theme for the afternoon, chat about it then do some crafting. However the ladies suggested we just put everything out chose something to do and chatted while we did it.
It has been amazing the conversations we have had about faith, life, the universe!! and when the Vicar popped in she said it had the most lovely warm atmosphere.